Are you in a relationship with a Virgo man and feel like things might be starting to crumble?
Has he started acting weird and you’re wondering if he’s planning on breaking up with you?
Keep reading to learn 10 things that commonly happen when a Virgo man is done with you.
Relationship breakups are hard.
They’re often heartbreaking and there is usually one party that feels betrayed.
But like most things in life, if you have some advanced warning then being broken up with can be much easier to deal with.
Fortunately, Virgo men are softies at heart, so it’s usually not that difficult to tell when a Virgo man is done with you and wants the end the relationship.
However, while Virgo men may seem perfect, with their refined nature and constant quest for self-improvement, if you’re a chill, relaxed Libra then Virgo’s are one of the worst zodiac signs for you to date, compatibility wise!
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10 Signs a Virgo Man is Done With You
- He’s Unreliable
- He’s Overly Critical
- He’s Too Stubborn
- He’s Very Impatient
- He’s Judgmental
- He Expects Perfection
- He’s Dishonest
- He’s Fussy
- He’s Unfaithful
- He’s Often Unkind
Have you been noticing these signs? If so, there’s a good chance that your Virgo man is almost done with the relationship.
But most often, the reason your relationship is crumbling is because of what is called a “Communication Gap“, which is the key to a successful relationship and the key to winning your man’s heart back (if that’s what you want.)
I learned this from relationship expert Brad Browning – he’s helped thousands of women get their ex back and fix their crumbling relationship.
Virgo men are known for their reliability in all facets of life, including their romantic relationships.
When you first met, you knew that he was never going to stand you up or forget to return your phone calls.
And further on in your relationship, your Virgo man always remembered important dates and made it a point to be there for you when you needed him.
On the flip side, when a Virgo man is done with you he’ll become unreliable.
It may be his turn to organize dinner but you’ll come home late from work and he’s only made a meal for himself.
You’ll text him during the day to remind him of something important and he won’t reply to your text.
Your anniversary will roll around and he’ll do absolutely nothing.
Virgo men can be very critical and like things done their way.
They’re often an “it’s my way or the highway” type of person, and if things aren’t done to their high standards, they’ll get very annoyed.
However, Virgo men are very tolerant and forgiving of things being done “wrong” (as they perceive it) when they’re happy in a relationship.
When a Virgo man is not happy, he’ll become critical and unforgiving at even the slightest thing.
For example, you take the time to wash the dishes one evening when your Virgo man is in the shower, even though it’s his turn to wash them.
A happy Virgo man would be thankful and appreciative, but a Virgo man who is done with the relationship would instead complain that you weren’t thorough enough or didn’t stack the dishes properly.
Virgo men are stubborn by nature, but when a Virgo man is happy in his relationship he’s willing to be a bit more flexible for the sake of your happiness.
However, when a Virgo man is done in a relationship he no longer feels the need or desire to make those sacrifices so you’ll start to notice him shutting down whenever you want to talk about comprising, and perhaps even becoming argumentative.
Have you noticed your Virgo man has become impatient with you? This is often something that happens when a Virgo man is done with you.
Virgo’s are one of the most patient zodiac signs.
They value perfection over “just getting it done” and as such, they’re willing to be patient with both themselves and others so the task at hand can be completed properly.
When a Virgo man is done with you, you’ll notice that his patience starts to wear thin.
In situations where he would be patient with you and even willing to lend a hand, you’ll start to notice that he’s on edge, asking you to hurry up and getting antsy when you’re taking too long.
An example of this might be when you’re getting ready to go out to dinner and he gets annoyed that you’re taking too long to get ready.
When he was happy in the relationship, it was no problem for him to wait until you’d perfectly styled your hair and done your makeup. He valued your perfectionism and was willing to be patient.
When a Virgo man is done with you, he is no longer patient because he no longer values things just because YOU value them.
And when he doesn’t place any importance on something (like how your makeup looks) he isn’t willing to be patient over it.
Virgo men are demanding and “judgmental” of themselves, but when a Virgo man is done with you, you’ll notice that he becomes judgmental of you.
This will often manifest in him taking issue with some of your vices that he used to be willing to accept as part of who you are.
For example, perhaps your Virgo man is a teetotaler (he abstains from drinking alcohol) but he’s never had a problem with you drinking the occasional glass of wine with dinner.
However, now he seems to take issue with it. He’ll constantly remind you of his belief that alcohol isn’t healthy and he judges what he perceives to be your “lack of self-control” or start telling you that you don’t care about your health.
You’ll start to notice that you no longer feel like you’re able to be yourself without fear of being judged. Does your Virgo man make you feel like you’re not up to “his standard?”
If so, this is a sign that he’s done with you and that you should end the relationship.
6. Expects Perfection
One of the most well-known Virgo traits is their perfectionism.
Virgo’s highly value things being done the right way – you’ll never catch them phoning it in. “If you can’t do it the right way, then you shouldn’t be doing it all” could be the catchphrase of a Virgo.
Virgo men expect perfection of themselves, but when they’re happy in their relationship they understand that everyone is different, and as such, they don’t expect perfection from their partner.
When a Virgo man is done with you you’ll notice that he holds you to the same extremely high expectations he holds himself to.
He’ll get annoyed if you don’t complete a task perfectly and he’ll often take over while grumbling something like “never mind, I’ll just do it myself!”
Virgos are one of the most honest zodiac signs.
Virgo truly believes that honesty is the best policy and isn’t known to sugarcoat their words. In fact, Virgo’s are often described as being “honest to a fault.”
If you’ve noticed that your Virgo man is being dishonest with you, consider this to be a big red flag in your relationship.
For someone who values honesty so highly, the fact that your partner is willing to lie to you – no matter how big or small the lie – is a surefire sign that your Virgo man is done with you.
Virgo’s are perfectionists and with this comes fussiness. They like things to be done “just so.”
“A place for everything and everything in its place” is a phrase that rings true for every Virgo.
When a Virgo man is done with you, you’ll notice that he becomes overly fussy with absolutely everything, even things that have nothing to do with him.
You may find him fussing over the tidiness of your car or if you live separately, the messy state of your filing cabinet when it’s not even his problem.
Faithfulness in a relationship is extremely important to a Virgo man.
A Virgo man who’s in a happy relationship would never dream of cheating on their partner, even if they were guaranteed that there was no way their partner would ever find out.
For this reason, if your Virgo man has been unfaithful to you, this is a HUGE red flag that he’s done with you.
A Virgo man would never be unfaithful to a partner that he is truly in love with.
While several Virgo traits such as their perfectionism and stubbornness may lead you to believe that Virgo’s are unkind by nature, in fact, the opposite is true.
Virgo’s are actually one of the most kind and patient zodiac signs, and this is especially true when they are in a happy relationship.
Have you noticed your Virgo man is often unkind to you? Perhaps he mocks you or puts you down in front of your friends or family?
When a Virgo man is done with you you’ll start to notice his kindness towards you disappear.
If you want to win back your Virgo man’s heart, then Brad Browning (the relationship expert I wrote about earlier) also has a free video you can watch that explains more about how to get entangled in your man’s mind.