Currently in a relationship with a Sagittarius man and things haven’t been smooth sailing lately? Worried that the relationship may be on it’s last legs? Keep reading to discover 10 things that happen when a Sagittarius man is done with you…
All relationships go through phases – sometimes it’s good and sometimes it’s difficult. Even couples who are deeply in love can have struggles in their relationship. However, we’re not talking about normal relationship ups and downs.
We’re talking about the signs that occur when a Sagittarius man is done with you and he’s done with the relationship – i.e. he wants out.
Generally speaking, Sagittarius men are lovable and passionate, which sounds great. And it is, if your zodiac signs are compatible. But if you’re a Cancer then Sagittarius is the worst zodiac sign to date!
As you’re reading through this list, you may start to notice that many of these signs are present in your relationship with your Sagittarius man. Due to the straightforward nature of Sag’s, it’s best to sit down and talk with your partner about the relationship, heart to heart.
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10 Signs a Sagittarius Man is Done With You
- He’s Lost Passion
- He’s Hot-Headed
- He’s Abrasive
- He’s Insensitive
- He’s Pessimistic
- He’s Reserved
- He’s Lost His Spontaneity
- He’s Dishonest
- He’s Disloyal
- He’s Impatient
1. Lost Passion
Sagittarius men are passionate lovers – something that probably drew you to him in the first place. He wanted to know everything about you and wanted to share his whole self with you. He longed to be with you when you were apart and he wasn’t shy in letting you know that.
When a Sagittarius man is done with you, that passion will diminish and eventually disappear. You’ll notice that he no longer shares so much (or really anything at all) of himself with you and he no longer shows as much interest in you. He may appear flippant and emotionally absent when you’re together.
Sagittarius is a fire sign with hot and dry elements. And you can probably guess what that means – Sagittarius men are often hot-headed and quick to lose their cool.
If you’ve been a relationship with a Sagittarius man for a while, it’s likely you’ve witnessed him losing his temper a few times. However, that anger was never directed at you.
But when a Sagittarius man is done with you he no longer feels the need to control his temper with you and additionally, little things that he perhaps found endearing or funny before (like how you always forget to switch the clothes from the washer to the dry, for example,) he now finds annoying to the point that he loses his cool.
Sagittarius men are often highly intellectual and enjoy deep, meaningful conversation.
When a Sagittarius man is happy in his relationship, he will engage in actual conversation – i.e. you both take turns speaking and he actually pays attention to your opinions and views.
However, when a Sagittarius man is done with you, he often becomes quite abrasive. He’s impatient when conversing with you and it seems like he can’t wait for you to finish speaking so he can continue to speak – he may even interrupt you frequently.
Sagittarians are known for being straightforward and speaking their mind. They don’t generally have the intention of hurting anyone’s feelings, but that can sometimes happen due to their bluntness.
When a Sagittarius man is in love, he will immediately recognize if his words unintentionally hurt you and he’ll be sensitive to that fact. He’ll want to apologize and it’ll be his mission to make it up to you.
On the flip side, when a Sagittarius man is done with you he won’t care if his words unintentionally hurt you. He’ll be completely insensitive to your feelings and he’s likely to tell you to just get over it.
Sagittarians are known for their endless optimism. In fact, they’re often thought to be one of the most optimistic zodiac signs there is.
That “glass half full” mentality may have been something that drew you to your Sagittarius man – it’s easy to look on the bright side of life when you’re in a relationship with a Sagittarius, because to them, the only side is bright!
So if you’ve noticed that recently, your normally optimistic partner has been pessimistic, particularly about your future together, than that’s a pretty clear sign that he’s done with you.
Sagittarius men are outgoing, friendly and the opposite of reserved. They love chatting about virtually anything – if it means they can have a conversation then they don’t care what the topic is (even if it’s about your secret love of Hello Kitty…)
But when a Sagittarius man sees his relationship as over, you’ll notice that he becomes a lot more reserved. He’ll engage in less conversation with you and he’ll often respond with one-word answers. He’ll also start to be less friendly and outgoing when he’s around your friends, as he likely recognizes that he won’t be seeing them for much longer either.
7. Lost Spontaneity
Spontaneity is a hallmark trait of Sagittarius men. Go out for ice-cream at 9pm on a Tuesday night when you both have to work the next day? Sure! How about waking up on Saturday morning and going on a completely unplanned weekend road trip to some random place you’ve never been? Without a doubt!
The spontaneous nature of your Sagittarius man may be one of the first things you fell in love with. He was always up for an adventure and he was usually the one suggesting it.
But when a Sagittarius man is done with you he loses all spontaneity. Life becomes routine and boring and when you suggest something fun and spontaneous it’ll be a struggle to get him to agree to it.
Dishonesty is a red flag in any relationship. But consider it a BIG red flag when a Sagittarius man starts being dishonest, because honesty is one of the traits that Sagittarian’s are known for.
Remember that bluntness and tendency to speak their mind that we went over earlier? That’s an example of Sagittarians tendency to be honest to a fault. They’re not the type to tell you that you look great in your new dress if it really doesn’t suit you. They’d rather be honest and risk hurting your feelings (and make it up to you later) than be dishonest.
But when a Sagittarius man is done with you, you’ll start to notice little white lies cropping up. They may start as small lies, like telling you that there are no women at the bachelor party he’s going to, but they’ll start to get bigger and more serious (like telling you that he didn’t get the number of any women at the bachelor party when in fact, he did…)
That leads us to the next sign that your Sagittarius is done with you – he’s disloyal.
Loyalty is very important to Sagittarius men. When they’re happy in a relationship they would never do anything that would potentially break your trust or cause a rift in your relationship. They would certainly never take the number of another woman at a party…
But loyalty doesn’t mean as much when they’re done with you, so consider his lack of loyalty a red flag that the relationship is over.
A negative trait of Sagittarian’s is that they’re often impatient. Even when your relationship was in a good place, you probably noticed that your Sagittarius man got a tad impatient with you every now and again. Perhaps he’d start to tap his fingers impatiently when he was onto the second hour of waiting for you to get ready to go to dinner…
But generally, his impatience was good-natured. You’d finally finish getting ready, he’d compliment you on how great you look and you’d both have a laugh about how long it takes you to get ready.
When a Sagittarius man is done with you, he loses his patience frequently. He doesn’t have the desire to wait for you to get ready – he may even start to lose his cool with you.
If you notice that your Sagittarius man is starting to display a number of these signs, it’s best to have a talk to him about how he really feels and consider ending the relationship. It’s better to admit that a relationship is not working and end things on good terms than holding onto to something that doesn’t serve either of you.
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