When a Libra man is done with you there are a number of common signs that occur, and it’s important to be aware of them so you can avoid heartbreak.
Of course, a broken heart can be impossible to avoid completely, especially if you’re not ready for the relationship to be over. But there’s one thing that makes a breakup even more difficult to bear, and that is being blindsided.
If you have at least an inkling that your Libra man is done with the relationship, then you can prepare yourself for the inevitable “we need to talk.” Or, you can be proactive and either break up with him before he breaks up with you or sit down and talk about how you can mend the relationship (if it’s worth fighting for.)
Here are 8 signs that a Libra man is done with you. If you’re seeing a combination of a few of these, that’s a good indicator that something is up with your Libra man.
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When a Libra Man is Done With You – 8 Signs It’s Over
- He’s Negative
- He Holds Grudges
- He’s Unkind
- He’s Unhelpful
- He’s Incompassionate
- He’s Boring
- He’s Close-Minded
- He’s Uncommunicative
Have you been noticing these signs? If so, there’s a good chance that your Libra man is almost done with the relationship.
But most often, the reason your relationship is crumbling is because of what is called a “Communication Gap“, which is the key to a successful relationship and the key to winning your man’s heart back (if that’s what you want.)
I learned this from relationship expert Brad Browning – he’s helped thousands of women get their ex back and fix their crumbling relationship.
Libra’s are known for their positive, idealistic outlook on virtually everything. They’re “glass-half-full” people and they can almost always see the good in any situation. If Libra’s had a motto it might be “Always Look on the Bright Side of Life.”
When a Libra man is done with you, you’ll start to notice that his eternal optimism fades and he becomes more negative. In particular, you’ll notice this in regards to your future together.
Your Libra man used to be your biggest cheerleader and remind you that you can weather any storm together and come out stronger. But now, he’s not so enthusiastic or positive because he doesn’t truly see a future together.
2. Holds Grudges
Despite their positive nature, Libra men are known for holding grudges (nobody is perfect, after all.) There are probably people who wronged your Libra man when he was 5 years old, and he still hasn’t forgiven them.
However, your Libra men never held a grudge against you, because you meant too much to him to hold grudges.
When a Libra man is over the relationship, you’ll start to notice that he holds grudges against you. And often, it will be over silly things or things that you thought he’d long forgotten. All of those grudges that he’d previously forgiven and forgotten will come bubbling to the surface.
Libra men are kind by nature, so if your Libra man is starting to show unkindness towards you then that’s a surefire sign that he’s done with you and a breakup is imminent.
This unkindness may not be overt (i.e. it doesn’t mean he’s going to start calling you nasty names and make fun of you in public.)
Instead, it often manifests as being uncaring when you’re hurt and showing a lack of emotion or sympathy, instead of telling you to “suck it up.”
Libra’s are the type of people who go out of their way to help others, even if it’s inconvenient to them. If you need someone to help you move house or tow your broken-down car, call a Libra friend.
In a relationship, you can almost always rely on a Libra to help around the house, be there for you when you need assistance, etc.
So when you start to notice that your Libra man is unhelpful and unwilling to lend a hand for even the smallest of tasks, that’s a common sign that he’s done with the relationship.
Libra’s are some of the most compassionate people in the zodiac. They’re nurturing and never stop giving, even to the smallest of creatures.
A Libra would much rather catch and release a mouse in their house rather than set a deadly trap because they feel compassion for even the smallest of creatures.
This compassionate attitude is probably one of the things that drew you to your Libra man. You could always count on him as a shoulder to cry on, and it felt like he really understood your pain, almost feeling it himself.
When a Libra man is done with you, he no longer shows that same compassion to you. He has an air of “uncaring” about him, instead, letting you deal with problems alone – he’s no longer willing to lend an ear or a shoulder to cry on.
When a Libra man is done with you he becomes quite boring to be around, which is a far cry from his usual entertaining way.
He used to be the life of the party, always making you laugh. He was a great conversationalist and life was certainly never boring with your Libra man.
But now, the opposite is true. He doesn’t want to engage in conversation. He would rather hang out on the couch and do nothing. He seems to have no motivation to enjoy life with you, but he’s his same, entertaining self when he’s with others.
Those are all definite red flags that your Libra man is done with you.
Libra men are generally very open-minded. They are willing to give anything a go and always up for an adventure, whether it’s a random weekend away kayaking, high tea at a fancy restaurant, or goat yoga at a local farm!
In addition, your Libra man has always been accepting of you and your differences, because he was open-minded and realized that not everyone thinks the same. It was your differences that made you unique, and what he loved about you.
When he’s done with the relationship, you’ll start to notice that he becomes close-minded. He’s not willing to step out of his comfort zone anymore and he starts to question and challenge you about your beliefs and ideals.
Libra men are generally excellent communicators – they love to talk and they are able to get their point across without being brash or arrogant.
When you and your Libra man had differences in the past, he would calmly chat with you about the issues and work towards a resolution.
However, when a Libra man is done with you he becomes uncommunicative. It’s like getting blood from a stone trying to get him to talk about your issues. This is because he’s over the relationship so he doesn’t feel like your issues are worth talking about or trying to resolve.
Have you been noticing these signs? If so, there’s a good chance that your Leo man is almost done with the relationship.
If you want to win back your Libra man’s heart, then Brad Browning (the relationship expert I wrote about earlier) also has a free video you can watch that explains more about how to get entangled in your man’s mind.