It’s a feeling that no one wants to experience – betrayal.
The person with whom you have a deeper connection than anyone else in this world has turned on you, and now your whole life has flipped upside down.
What do you do if this happens? How can you recover from the pain? This article will help guide you through the steps to take if your twin flame has betrayed you.
Can Your Twin Flame Betray You?
Yes, your twin flame can betray you. Although a twin flame union is a powerful and intense soul connection between two mirror souls, betrayal can, and does, still happen.
Twin flame unions are unlike any other relationship you’ll ever have.
They’re intense, deep, and emotionally charged. And when a relationship like this goes wrong, it can be devastating.
How to Recognize The Feeling of Twin Flame Betrayal
Twin flame unions are unlike any other relationship you’ll ever have.
They’re intense, deep, and emotionally charged. And when a relationship like this goes wrong, it can be devastating.
We all think that we know what betrayal is and how it feels, but those who are experiencing betrayal for the first time may not completely understand this emotion at first.
This is especially true when your twin flame has betrayed you, as emotions are heightened in twin flame unions.
I didn’t understand what was really happening when my twin flame betrayed me, and I had to take a step back and look at the situation from a different perspective.
What Does It Feel Like When Your Twin Flame Betrays You?
Feelings of betrayal can manifest differently, but are often described as an empty, sick feeling in the pit of your stomach, a tightness in the chest (almost like your heart is truly breaking), deep sadness, and a feeling that you will never be able to trust again.
Betrayal Doesn’t Always Have to Mean Cheating
So often when people think of betrayal, they think about cheating. And of course, this is one of the most common forms of betrayal.
But what if your twin flame betrayed you in another way? What could that look like?
Betrayal can happen in many different ways: one example is when someone betrays their own morals or values. They may act differently than the person they normally are, which is a way of betraying your trust.
Twin flame betrayal may also involve divulging private information with a third party – information that your twin flame knew was for their ears only.
Disrespecting you or making fun of you around others is another way your twin flame can betray you – this type of behavior is never acceptable, especially in a twin flame relationship.
There are many different ways twin flames can betray each other, and if you’re feeling betrayed it doesn’t matter what the circumstances were – your feelings are valid.
What To Do If Your Twin Flame Has Betrayed You
When your twin flame has betrayed you, there are certain steps you should take.
Remember: taking these steps will not be easy, but they are necessary and will help lead you through the difficult situation of twin flame betrayal.
1. Realize It’s Not Your Fault
Take a deep breath and realize that what has happened was never your fault.
You did nothing wrong by loving someone, believing in them, and trusting them to not betray you.
People have free will, and there’s nothing you did or did not do to cause the betrayal, so never blame yourself.
2. Take Some Time To Yourself
Give yourself time alone with the situation – don’t speak about it right away with your twin flame.
Discussing the betrayal when your emotions are still heightened will only cause you to become even more upset and may even lead to you saying something you end up regretting.
3. Recognize That Everyone Is Flawed
As you’re taking time for yourself, try to understand that your twin flame is not perfect – they are just as flawed and imperfect as everyone else.
Of course, this doesn’t excuse their betrayal – quite the contrary. What it does do is help you recognize who your twin flame truly is.
Oftentimes, we have a tendency to look at our twin flame through rose-colored glasses and think that they are absolutely perfect and flawless.
Recognizing that your twin flame is flawed just like everyone else in the world will help you see the reality that your twin flame betraying you isn’t your fault.
4. Don’t Be Too Hard On Yourself
If your twin flame betrayal experience is anything like mine was, you were most likely completely blindsided. This can lead to feelings of guilt or shame – “I should have seen this coming.”
Understand that it’s not you who should be feeling guilty or ashamed.
In time, this betrayal will make you a strong person because it is only from the tough times in life that we grow and learn more about life, and about ourselves as individuals.
5. Don’t Be Afraid to Talk With a Trusted Person
Once you’ve taken some time to yourself, don’t be afraid to reach out and talk with someone knowledgeable.
While it can feel natural to reach out to a friend or family member, sometimes it’s better to talk to someone who can offer an unbiased opinion.
Chatting online with a trusted psychic advisor can help you gain clarity and provide direction on how to heal and move forward.
It’s natural to hope that the psychic will tell you that you and your twin flame will reunite and live happily ever after – that’s what I was hoping for when I contacted my most trusted psychic.
However, it’s important to remember to let your psychic guide the conversation – after all, they are the ones with spiritual insights that can help you heal and move forward.
The process of healing may be painful and it may take some time, but your psychic will be there to assist you in a loving, kind, and gentle manner.
Remember – you are not alone in this situation!
Don’t Give Up On Finding Your Twin Flame
What you’re going through is one of the most emotionally painful things you can experience, and it’s common to feel like you just want to give up on your twin flame altogether.
However, instead of letting this betrayal make you bitter or jaded, use it as a learning opportunity and allow it to make you stronger.
Ultimately, the best way to move on from betrayal is to understand that we all make mistakes.
That doesn’t mean you should forgive or forget, but once you’ve taken the time to heal, allow yourself to re-emerge with an open heart and mind.
This is how I was able to heal and gain a deeper sense of empathy for others when my twin flame betrayed me – hopefully, it will help you do the same.