How To Make a Virgo Man Attracted to You

If you want to know how to attract a Virgo man, the first thing you’ll need to know is that Virgo men are discerning and will hold their partner to a very high standard.

They can be nitpicky, but they’re always respectful and believe that they’re showing they care by holding their partner to the same standards they hold themselves to.

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How to Attract a Virgo Man

Whether you’ve just met a Virgo man and you’re hoping to win his heart, or you’ve been dating a Virgo man who’s been showing signs he’s done with the relationship and want to get him back, here’s how to make a Virgo man attracted to you.

1. Take Pride in Your Physical Health

Virgo men are very particular with their health and value a partner who places just as much importance on staying fit and healthy.

If you want a attract a Virgo man, a good way to do that is by showing him that you take pride in your health and your physical appearance.

2. Plan a Health-Focused Date

If you’re planning a date with a Virgo man, it’s important to remember that Virgo men pride themselves on their refined taste and cleanliness, so a sweaty nightclub probably isn’t their date of choice.

Instead, a day of hiking followed by a nutritious lunch at a local juice bar or healthy cafe is a great way to make your Virgo date attracted to you – he’ll value your dedication to a healthy lifestyle and find it very attractive that you have similar values to him.

3. Don’t Engage in Frivolous Conversation

When it comes to conversation, Virgo men strongly value intelligent, deep conversation over frivolous gossip. They enjoy conversations with people whom they consider educated and intelligent.

This doesn’t mean you must have a college degree, it just means that topics like local gossip or reality TV will bore a Virgo man.

Try to discover what his interests are and brush up on your knowledge, along with wowing him with your own knowledge of a particular topic.

4. Respect Their Privacy

An important key to attracting a Virgo man is to remember that Virgo men are extremely private.

Don’t try to pry into their private life or make the mistake of thinking that you can “crack their shell.” A Virgo man will open up to you when he’s ready, and he’ll appreciate you not forcing the issue.

5. Plan Ahead

While some zodiac signs are very spontaneous, Virgo isn’t one of them. Remember this when you’re trying to attract a Virgo man.

Don’t just spring activities on a Virgo man – he needs things planned in advance and requires notice that plans are changing.

If you make a suggestion for a different activity mid-way through a date, don’t be offended or surprised if your Virgo man declines. It’s not that he doesn’t want to spend time with you, it’s just that he doesn’t appreciate spontaneity – he prefers routine.


Ultimately, if you want to make a Virgo man attracted to you, remember that Virgo men appreciate a partner who places high importance on their physical health, is educated and has refined tastes, values their privacy, and plans ahead.

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About Ash

My name is Ash and I'm the founder of High Vibes Haven. I have been studying numerology, angels, and angel numbers for over 20 years. I am passionate about helping people recognize signs from their guardian angels, understand the hidden meanings of numbers in their life, and learn more about the secrets of the universe.

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